So we always knew that Ms. K was my mini-me but when she does things that I would totally do it makes me laugh. Twice this week she amazed me with her "me"-
ness.
One night I was getting their bath ready and she was
supposed to be picking up her Pet Shop stuff. She couldn't get the container closed so I went to help her. It
wouldn't close cause she had to many pets in one compartment. I started to move them around and she freaked out. "You can't move them Momma!"
"Why not, I can't close the container
hunny"
"Because I have them
separated by EYE COLOR!!!"
That is SO me. It's so me it's scary! That is something I would totally do. Scott makes fun of me all the time for things just like this! Oh well.
Saturday at soccer Ms. K did not have fun.The girls were all a little out of it
yesterday (could have been the rainy morning we had) and Ms. K became disoriented and scored a goal on her own team. She was so upset she started crying and left the game. She came over and sat with me and I asked her why she was so upset. My kindergartner told me "I wasn't ready for the game today"
"what do you mean you weren't ready for the game today?"
" I wasn't ready for the other team and then I got confused. I was just trying my best"
"
Hunny, I know you were. It's okay if you don't score lots of goals in a game and it's okay if you score a goal
for the other team. Every girl out there has done it and they don't even care."
I think she was more mad that she did it and embarrassed that she made a mistake. She is so me! I would have done the same thing at her age and I probably would have done the same thing
when I was older. I still struggle with that as an adult, especially the whole making mistakes part. For some reason my brain thinks that if I am going to do something I better do it fabulously or I don't want to do it. mistakes are not allowed and if I make one I am extremely embarrassed and I don't want to do it anymore. I know that is weird but, like I said it is
something i struggle with and have a lot more control over now. I see Ms. K struggle with the same things and I feel for her. As a parent you hate for your struggles to be
inherited by your children but I guess they can't get everything fabulous about their parents!
Wow, this post went down a totally different path than I intended. I was intending for it to be funny and it ended up being about issues.
Time for me to sign off...my hubby has been patiently waiting to check his fantasy team.
hope everyone has a great week!